Mental Preparation

That pregnancy is a process that emotional blackmail everyone already knows. Therefore, because of psychiatric conditions can have a big impact on the content of the second baby's parents must prepare themselves mentally to deal with this process. During nine months of pregnancy, usually occurring physiological changes not only in the mother but also on the father of the baby. Here we will give some overview about these changes, so that you as a married couple can anticipate change and prepare yourself well.

Compared with men, women tend to more quickly react to any conditions that it faces. During pregnancy there is a big change in itself alone a woman, which if she is not able to adjust to these changes can be made quickly to stress. Whereas many studies prove that physical health conditions was strongly influenced by mental health conditions. This means that in case of psychiatric disorders during pregnancy, it can affect the physical health, where the physical health of pregnant women is closely related to the health of the fetus. In addition, some studies also prove that the mother's psychiatric condition also can affect the mental condition and character of the baby when born.

We must realize that every woman has different views and different experiences of pregnancy. Even the same woman who also has a psychological and physical conditions that differ between the first pregnancy with subsequent pregnancies. Most pregnant women may welcome with joy, but there is also a welcome him with anxiety, worry, fear and even sad. All the negative feelings that do not reassure. Sometimes these feelings arise not because he does not want her baby, but can also be caused by physical changes that affect them. Or sometimes caused by thinking about what has not happened, for example, fear of childbirth is regarded as the death threats that endanger themselves, worried about the condition of the baby, thinking about the cost of delivery, the feared would change her shape. Even some are haunted by excessive anxiety and tension while keeping her pregnancy for fear of miscarriage, and other negative thoughts that made her emotional condition worse.

In certain cases, these negative feelings arise because the woman did not expect her pregnancy. Upon learning she was pregnant, she would feel shocked and tried to deny her pregnancy. Under these conditions the women often take a shortcut that is not humane, and without any moral consideration as a creature of god, namely abortion.

It turned out that physiological changes like this are not only experienced by women who are pregnant course, the father sometimes also experience the real thing when he learned he would become a father. Psychological conditions mixed among the pride that he will be a father and worries about his ability to take responsibility as a father. Not to mention the worry will be the candidate who loves his son and wife. This is especially seen in the first pregnancy. With these conditions, it is no wonder if sometimes the father is also experiencing the same physical symptoms such as cravings with his wife and vomiting, weak and often sick.